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  • Settlers and Pioneers

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    Some people are called to be settlers and some are called to be pioneers both are needed in the Kingdom of God.

    Although we were not Christians when we married Kevin and I always had that pioneer spirit in us. Kevin was in the final few months of a 4 year apprenticeship as an electrician when we decided to leave our home town Stoke-on-Trent in England and move to London to run a fish and chip shop.  It was the first time we had moved away and we knew nothing about running a business or cooking fish and chips. Kevin was 21 years old and I was 19, I will never forget the words of Kevin’s work colleague  “You are stupid to leave now all pipe dreams come to an end”. It was the best move we ever made and it set the tone for the rest of our life, full of surprises and adventure.

  • RESTORING THE BROKEN Part 4

    E. Don’t be guilty of Self-Righteousness

    The last part of verse 1 is a rebuke to our self-righteousness: “But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted.” If another can be caught in a sin so can we.

    James 3:2 We all stumble in many ways.

    1 John 1:8 If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.

    1 Corinthians 10:12 So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall!         

     It’s difficult to know how to respond when a brother or sister falls. Restoration is delicate work and is not for those who feel spiritually superior. It’s a daunting responsibility and it’s often very messy. Because of that, we must keep three things in mind:

    · Don’t diminish the seriousness of sin. We shouldn’t excuse or ignore iniquity. Remember, while Jesus comforted the woman caught in adultery by saying, “Neither do I condemn you,” He also said, “Go and sin no more” (John 8:11).

    · Avoid the temptation to witch-hunt. No one is asking you to go on a “search and destroy” mission to uncover and correct the sins of others.

    The goal is recovery. Punishment looks backward to the offense while restoration puts the person back on the path that leads forward. When we care for someone, our aim should always be to bring them back to God.

    Several years ago, an angry man rushed through a museum in Amsterdam and repeatedly slashed one of Rembrandt’s most famous paintings. A short time later, another man slipped into St. Peter’s Cathedral in Rome with a hammer and began to smash a Michelangelo masterpiece. These two cherished works of art were badly damaged. What do you think the officials did? Did they throw them away? No way. Using the most qualified people they could find, working with care and precision, they made every effort to repair the treasures.

    Are you ready to restore God’s masterpieces? Is there anyone you know who has slipped up and needs a helping hand?

  • RESTORING THE BROKEN Part 3

    D. How to do it? With gentleness and humility.

    Broken believers need spiritual believers who will come alongside in order to mend them. This process must be done with gentleness, which is a fruit of the Spirit. The King James Version uses the word “meekly” which has the idea of doing something quietly and with enormous kindness. When a friend is down you don’t announce it to the world. You don’t try to ruin his reputation but instead you touch with tenderness.

    Paul told Timothy to “gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance, leading them to a knowledge of the truth” (2 Timothy 2:25). Romans 2:4 tells us that it’s God’s kindness that leads a person to repentance.

    This scripture gives us an example of how we should behave toward others.

    Isaiah 42:3 He will not crush the weakest reed or put out a flickering candle.

    It’s not always easy to do this many times we can be judgmental instead of being merciful. The saying is true ‘There but by the grace of God go I’. If we don’t allow ourselves to feel the pain of someone’s sin and approach people with tears in our eyes, then we either do not love the sinner sufficiently, or we don’t hate the sin enough. Paul chose the terrain of tenderness when he wrote in 2 Corinthians 10:1: “By the meekness and gentleness of Christ, I appeal to you…”

    Once again, Jesus is our model and our motivation. In Matthew 11:29, Jesus refers to Himself as “gentle and humble in heart.”

    Let’s not allow the devil win any of these battles to cause Christians to fall away but let us be agents of restoration someone’s eternal destiny could be at stake.

  • RESTORING THE BROKEN Part 2

    B. Who is to help? A spiritual believer.

    The person best equipped to help a fallen follower is one who is “spiritual.”

    In the context, this describes those who are walking in the Spirit and keeping in step with the Spirit. (Galatians 5:25) It’s not referring to mystical spirituality but to normal Spirit-filled Christianity. You don’t have to be a super saint or a full time pastor to help others. Spiritual people are ordinary people relying on an extraordinary God. It’s amazing when we reach out to help others how the Holy Spirit gives us the right words to say He is the God of comfort.

    2Corinthians 1:3-4 All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.

    That’s God’s plan not that we roll our eyes and tut tut but that we take the comfort that God has poured out on us and serve it back to our Christian friends in need.

    C. What to do? Restoration.

    The one who has fallen is in need of restoration. To “restore” means to make something right by bringing back to its former condition. This word was used for setting a broken bone or mending a torn net in Matthew 4:21. In other words, restoration is an integral and necessary part of the healing process. If someone has experienced dislocation, or brokenness, or has been torn apart by transgression, he or she needs someone who will come alongside in order to lift them up. God Himself is in the restoration business as we read in Ezekiel 34:16: “I will search for the lost and bring back the strays. I will bind up the injured and strengthen the weak.”

    Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead but He didn’t leave him to struggle to free himself or to walk around blindly. He asked His disciples to remove the grave clothes so that he could walk in the freedom that had been given to him. Likewise after we are born again we need help and support from other believers to grow. So often a person becomes a believer then we leave it to the “church” by that we mean Pastors or programs to disciple him or her but it is the responsibility of the members of the body to make disciples.

    Since God works to bring sinners to wholeness, we should seek ways to help others as well. If a man is my brother, then I am his keeper.

    If we are not actively looking for ways to bring back those who are spiritually sidetracked, how will they get back on their feet?  Who does God want to restore through you?  Is there anyone you can think of right now who is going down the slippery path of sin?

    Jude 22-23: “Be merciful to those who doubt; snatch others from the fire and save them…”

    The following words are both challenging and comforting.

    James 5:19 “…If anyone among you wanders away from the truth and is brought back again, you can be sure that the one who brings that person back will save that sinner from death and bring about the forgiveness of many sins.”

  • RESTORE THE BROKEN

    GALATIANS 6:1-5 Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. If anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself. Each one should test his own actions. Then he can take pride in himself, without comparing himself to somebody else, for each one should carry his own load.

    This first verse is exactly how we would like to be treated if we were fall into sin, we know that God will forgive us and restore us but so often we are afraid of being real with other Christians because they may judge us or not speak to us again or worse still they may gossip about us. It’s been said that believers belong to the only army in the world that shoots its wounded. There are times when we falter in our spiritual life and we can’t get back on track by ourselves. And there other occasions when we feel so burdened that we don’t know how we will ever make it through another day.

    The Bible says that you reap what you sow; therefore it is time for us to sow mercy and grace to our Christian brothers and sisters.

    Our first task is found in verse 1: “Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted.”

    The Message puts it this way: “If someone falls into sin, forgivingly restore him, saving your critical comments for yourself. You might be needing forgiveness before the day’s out.”

    A) The situation: a broken believer.

    The word “caught” was used to describe a bird or an animal that had become entangled in a trap. A believer who is caught in a sin is one who has been surprised or suddenly entrapped, with no hope of escape. The idea here is of a brother or sister who has been caught red-handed in sin, much like the woman ambushed by the authorities while she was committing adultery

    John 8:3-11 The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before the group and said to Jesus, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?” They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him.  But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.” Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground. At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” “No one, sir,” she said. “Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”

    She was guilty she had broken the law but Jesus did not condemn her, he did exhort her to change her way of living.

    The word “sin” in verse 1 is the word translated “trespass,” which indicates the idea of stumbling or sliding off a slick path. We are all dealing with the flesh and endeavoring to resist the devil who is seeking to devour us.

    A good example of this is Peter. He boasted that he would never forsake Christ and yet he ended up denying Jesus three times in a row.

    The person best equipped to help a fallen follower is one who is “spiritual.”

  • GRACE FOR THE JOURNEY Part 3

    c) DOING THE WILL OF GOD

    God has a plan and purpose for every one of our lives and He gives us grace to fulfill that plan and that is why it is important to do His will.  If you are trying to do something that God hasn’t called you to do then the grace won’t be there to do it.

    Ephesians 4:7 But to each one of us grace has been given as Christ apportioned it.      

    Colossians 2: 6-7 My counsel for you is simple and straightforward: Just go ahead with what you’ve been given. You received Christ Jesus, the Master; now live him. You’re deeply rooted in him. You’re well constructed upon him. You know your way around the faith. Now do what you’ve been taught. School’s out; quit studying the subject and start living it! And let your living spill over into thanksgiving. (The Message Bible)

    Illustration: When Kevin asked me to go with him to Kyrgyzstan I said I would pray about it. In my mind though my answer was already no, for a few different reasons.

    First: I hated to fly because if I am honest I was afraid of crashing and we had to fly with the Russian airline Aeroflot which had a bad reputation. 

    Second: Kevin’s stories of his visit to Uzbekistan were scary, being stopped by the police all the time, what if we were arrested and our kids would be back in the States without us?

    Third: The food would be very different and the bathrooms left a lot to be desired.

    When I prayed about it though I felt impressed that God wanted me to go so I agreed to ” DO IT AFRAID” as Joyce Meyer says. Before we left, people would ask me if I was excited about the trip and I would say no, I was going with trepidation. Praise God He responds to our obedience. The three flights there went smoothly, even Aeroflot had a new fleet of planes. The food was fine I coped with the bathrooms. The bible school where we taught was raided by the KGB but God took care of the situation and we were able to continue our ministry there. On the journey home I had such a peace that I didn’t experience the usual fear of flying God delivered me.

    When you step out and do the will of God you find that God’s grace meets you at your point of need.

    CONCLUSION

    DON’T BE SATISFIED WITH THE GRACE YOU HAVE

    You can grow in the grace of God as you grow in the knowledge of God.

    2 Peter 3:18 But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen

    2 Peter 1:2 May God give you more and more grace and peace as you grow in your knowledge of God and Jesus our Lord.

    As we trust in the Lord and grow in our relationship with Him, He will continue to work in us by His Spirit of Grace until we see Jesus and our salvation will be complete.

    Philippians 1:6  And I am convinced and sure of this very thing, that He Who began a good work in you will continue until the day of Jesus Christ [right up to the time of His return], developing [that good work] and perfecting and bringing it to full completion in you.

  • GRACE FOR THE JOURNEY Part 2

    b) HUMILITY

    Paul knew about humility and the grace of God by personal experience. After an amazing revelation from the Lord he received what he calls “a thorn in his flesh” we are not told what this thorn was but Paul asked the Lord to remove it.

    2 Corinthians 12:8-9 Three different times I begged the Lord to take it away. Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me.

    We shouldn’t be afraid to admit that we are weak or that we are having struggles because that is where the grace of God comes in.

    Humility attracts the grace of God, pride drives God away.

    James 4:4-6 (The Message) You’re cheating on God. If all you want is your own way, flirting with the world every chance you get, you end up enemies of God and his way. And do you suppose God doesn’t care? The proverb has it that “he’s a fiercely jealous lover.” And what he gives in love is far better than anything else you’ll find. Its common knowledge that “God goes against the willful proud; God gives grace to the willing humble.”

    Notice this scripture says that God gives grace to the willing humble, some of us are stubborn, don’t wait until you are humbled before you come to the Lord for His empowering but surrender your life to Him willingly.

    Psalm 32:9 Do not be like the horse or the mule, which have no understanding but must be controlled by bit and bridle or they will not come to you.

    This scripture goes on to say that “he who trust in the Lord mercy shall surround Him”

    Hebrews 4:14-16  So then, since we have a great High Priest who has entered heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to what we believe. This High Priest of ours understands our weaknesses, for he faced all of the same testings we do, yet he did not sin. So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive his mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it most.

  • GRACE FOR THE JOURNEY

     

    Galatians 2:19-21 For when I tried to keep the law, it condemned me. So I died to the law—I stopped trying to meet all its requirements—so that I might live for God. My old self has been crucified with Christ.  It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.  I do not treat the grace of God as meaningless. For if keeping the law could make us right with God, then there was no need for Christ to die.

    Grace isn’t just for salvation grace is for living when we trust in God He empowers us to live a full and effective life.

    How can we live by His grace?

    a) FAITH

    We live by depending or trusting in the grace of God by faith. We have to believe that His sacrifice is sufficient and take Him at His word. We have to stop thinking that we can sort out every problem ourselves and humbly ask the Lord to live through us by His Spirit.

    The difficulty we have is that we live in a self sufficient society where weakness (especially for men) is seen as a negative thing and not being able to handle our problems is unacceptable. So we suffer quietly instead of turning to God, until we are absolutely desperate and there is no other alternative. There is another way; Jesus wants us to see that without Him we can do nothing that all our best efforts are not good enough, if we will just depend on Him, He will work out everything for our good.

    John 15:4-5 Remain in me, and I will remain in you. For a branch cannot produce fruit if it is severed from the vine, and you cannot be fruitful unless you remain in me. “Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing.

    This way of living is not about striving it’s about remaining in Christ. Just as the sap in the vine flows through the branches and contains all the nourishment that is needed to produce a bumper harvest of grapes, so the Spirit of Grace fills us to overflowing to produce in us all that God has purposed to do in our lives.

    2Peter 1:3 By his divine power, God has given us everything we need for living a godly life. We have received all of this by coming to know him, the one who called us to himself by means of his marvelous glory and excellence.

  • Dancing in the moonlight

    On our arrival at the bible training center we were introduced to the 24 students who were all from differerent parts of Central Asia. We heard their stories, many of them were tragic. A story of a mother committing suicide to escape the terrible treatment her husband put her through. Then the children being abandoned by the father to live out in an open field in the winter until they were taken in by a Christian Pastor who raised some money for the daughter to come to this center.

    Our seminars on marraige were very relevant because many of these young men and women had no concept of love and tenderness. Women were mostly treated as second class citizens and often like animals. We focussed for the first 2 or 3 sessions on the unconditional love of Christ and submitting in love to one another. Then we had opportunity to pray with individuals and to share God’s word with them. Some of the young men were a bit suspicious of us and the teaching we were bringing as it was totally new to them.

    That evening we heard music coming from the courtyard, so we went to check it out. One evening a week the students were allowed to play their music through the sound system outside. It was cool to hear Kyrgyz pop music they were all dancing a mixture of traditional dance and disco and beckoned for us to join them, Kevin declined but I jumped in. What fun we had the differences in language and culture were all stripped away, dancing under the moon and the stars 6,000 miles from home.  It was a great end to a wonderful day.

  • FOOD FOR THOUGHT

    The reminders of yesterday’s grace filled moments melted away as we paced up and down the living room floor wondering if our ride to the churrch meeting would ever show up. It’s amazing how quickly we can move from faith to fear. Isn’t He the same God today as He was yesterday, didn’t He say He would never leave us or forsake us? Finally the knock on the door and off we went to church, to a group of people we had never met before.

    The words to the worship songs were projected onto the wall and now I was wishing that I had learned the Russian alphabet as there was no way to understand the songs. Kevin preached with the help of an interpreter and then after the service we chatted to some of the people there who could speak English. Amazingly there was a team visiting from the States and one of the team members was a friend of the youth pastor back at our church. It really is a small world. We had the opportunity to pray with a few people and afterwards all went to a local restaurant to eat lunch together.

    This was a great experience because our hosts were able to explain what the different meals were on the menu and they ordered a variety of dishes so that we could try a few new things. We were only to be with this church for one day the next day we were due to travel to another city to the bible training center where we would be speaking on marriage. We were sensing that God had some amazing things in store for us at our next location and we were not to be disapointed.